What can I expect at a meeting?
You're looking for help, but you’re afraid there isn't anyone out there who could possibly do what you've done, much less understand and accept you for who you are. Take a breath, and know that your first SAA meeting will be an experience of acceptance and understanding.
When you work up the courage to come through the door the first time, you'll see the faces of men and women who know your troubles – they've all been there too. A current member probably will introduce himself or herself and ask you whether this is your first meeting. The leader of the meeting may then explain to you how that meeting will introduce you to the SAA twelve-step recovery program. You may be asked to introduce yourself with just your first name. Your first meeting will be an opportunity for you to listen to others' stories, learn how the program works for them, ask questions, and share as little or as much as is comfortable for you.
You won't be required to do anything. In SAA, as with all twelve-step programs, participation is voluntary. Your recovery is your own; we're here to help you.
Every meeting is slightly different. We recommend that you attend at least six meetings before you decide whether SAA has anything to offer you. Some meetings regularly draw a big crowd, and some are sparsely attended. If one meeting doesn’t work for you, try another.
If you would prefer to speak with someone over the phone before deciding to attend a meeting, please call our phone line – 608-561-3744 – any day, any time. We endeavor to answer all calls in-person – but if no one answers, please leave a voicemail with your first name and a phone number where we can reach you.